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What Airi keeps, and for how long
Last updated 15 October 2026
Airi is an AI dating coach. Here is exactly what the service saves when you talk to her, who can see it, and how to erase it.
- Your chat is sent to Anthropic to write Airi's replies and is stored on Cloudflare for up to 90 days.
- Airi keeps a short memory note of past chats for 30 days, so she can pick up where you left off.
- Your browser holds a random ID instead of an account. Airi asks for no name, email or phone number.
- One tap on “Delete my data” erases everything saved for your browser, right away.
- Airi is for adults (18+).
- Your data stays out of advertising: no ad trackers, no selling, no sharing for ads.
Who runs Airi
Airi (talktoairi.com) is run by Daniella Fay Kaufmann, an independent creator based in Israel, who is the controller of the data described here. Questions, requests and complaints: [email protected].
What is saved
| What | Why | How long |
|---|---|---|
| Your messages and Airi's replies | So the conversation makes sense from one message to the next | 90 days after the conversation was last updated |
| Airi's working notes on each message: a guess at your mood, how open you seem, the topics, and a crisis-risk check | To choose the right tone and to notice when someone needs crisis support | Stored with the chat, 90 days |
| A short memory note of your past chats, and your first name if you typed it | So Airi remembers you on your next visit | 30 days after the last update |
| A coaching profile: number of visits, trust and humour level, recurring themes, and a rough guess at your attachment style | To adjust how Airi coaches you over time | 1 year after the last update |
| Your 18+ confirmation, the Terms version you accepted and the time | Proof that the adults-only rule was accepted | 1 year after the last update |
| A note that someone said they are under 18 | To keep coaching paused for that browser | 30 days |
| Reports about a reply (the reply, the reason, your optional note) | Safety review and fixes | 1 year |
| “Stuck messages” sent through the form (the words only, with names and numbers removed) | The anonymous “Send it?” series, if you agreed | 1 year, or until you ask for deletion |
| Your IP address | Rate limiting, against abuse | About 2 minutes, then gone |
In your browser (local storage, no cookies): the random ID, your language, the motion setting, the Terms version you accepted and the time of the last “you're talking to an AI” reminder.
Screenshots you add to the stuck-message form are read on your own device. Only the words are sent, after names, phone numbers, emails, handles and links are swapped for placeholders, and the server removes them a second time before saving. The image itself never leaves your device.
Who handles it
- Anthropic (USA) writes Airi's replies. Each message you send, with recent context, goes to Anthropic's API. Under Anthropic's commercial terms, this data stays out of its model training, and Anthropic keeps it only for a limited period for safety and abuse monitoring.
- Cloudflare hosts the site and stores the data described above on its global network.
- Google Fonts serves the typefaces, so your browser contacts Google when a page loads. jsDelivr serves the text-reading tool on the stuck-message form, only when you add a screenshot.
- Resend delivers two kinds of short notification emails to the operator: when someone passes the 18+ step (a shortened ID, the language and the time) and when someone reports a reply (the reply, the reason and your note).
Daniella can open stored conversations. She does so only to look into a report, fix a problem, or check that safety features work. Your data is never sold or used for advertising.
Your choices and rights
- Delete instantly: “Delete my data” at the bottom of the chat erases your chats, memory note, name, profile and consent record for this browser.
- Delete by email: write to [email protected]. Deletion is completed within 30 days. For a stuck-message submission, include the reference code you were given.
- Access, correction, a copy of your data, objection: same address. Since there are no accounts, tell us roughly when you chatted and what about, so the right conversations are found.
- Complaints: you can also contact your local data protection authority (for example the ICO in the UK).
Legal bases (UK GDPR / EU GDPR): providing the service you ask for (your chats, memory and profile); legitimate interests in safety, abuse prevention and fixing problems (working notes, reports, rate limiting); your consent (stuck-message submissions and their anonymized publication). California residents: Airi sells and shares no personal information, and you can ask to know, delete or correct it at the address above.
Adults only
Airi is for people aged 18 and over. When someone tells Airi they are younger, coaching stops, the saved conversation is deleted, and Airi points them to a youth helpline.
Safety
If a message suggests someone may be in danger, Airi stays in the conversation and shares crisis lines for their country. These moments are logged as a flag inside the conversation record, with the same 90-day limit.
Where the data lives
Cloudflare stores data on servers around the world, and Anthropic processes it in the United States. These transfers rely on the providers' standard contractual protections.
Changes
When this policy changes in a way that matters, the date above changes and you'll be asked to confirm again before your next chat.